An interesting thing happened once I decided to explore the idea of a life coach. I have experienced a certain burst of clarity about certain things.
For example, it occurred to me that when I do find a coach I need to be ready with a list of issues/areas of concern.
I started working on the list and in doing so I realized that though I had struggled and failed to develop some goals for the New Year it was now very clear to me what goals I wanted to achieve this year.
One is to become a better writer.
The other is to put my affairs in order, as they say.
The first goal needs no explanation. I like to write and would like to spend my waking hours earning my living from writing and so improve I must.
The second goal is fueled by a realization that my life is really disorganized. Yes, I manage to get out of the door every morning and handle the mundane things of daily life but I have not really handled the important decisions in life such as writing a will or a medical directive or figuring out if the insurance policies I have are worth anything or compiling all my health records in one place or . . . I could go on and on.
If by the end of the year I find that I have made substantial progress in these 2 goals then I will feel some sense of accomplishment. One will give my personal satisfaction and the other will give me peace of mind. Two worthy goals indeed.