Tuesday, October 18, 2011

So Long Fear and the Status Quo!

One of the biggest hurdles to overcome as an immigrant in a new country is fear. This is a hurdle we have to cross often and with almost every opportunity. Some of the effects of fear are

Procastination: Putting off what you can do today and giving excuses for not taking action. What goals do you need to set and fulfill?

Mediocrity: Settling for opportunities that are way below your potential and being afraid to stretch yourself. Are you living up to your potential?

Defensiveness: Fear makes you fight more battles than are worth fighting for. If you are clear about your position, you can allow others to have a different position without feeling threatened. Is there a true threat to what you are currently defending?

To address your fears, consider writing a letter to fear? It will help you gain clarity and allow you to take steps to overcome it. I got this idea from reading a blog post by Franyora Clophus. To get started with your letter, check out her letter here.

When you say goodbye to your fear, you say goodbye to the status quo.

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